孩子不參與活動之可能原因：身體不適、情緒不佳、怕挫折，受人嘲笑、
生性害羞內向、故意開玩笑、活動不具吸引...

(1) 孩子身心不適時，不必勉強
(2) 多鼓勵孩子，激發其榮譽心
(3) 讓孩子學習尊重他人，It's only a game
(4) 儘量使每位小朋友都有表現的機會，避免產生小英雄崇拜心理
(5) 私下多與孩子交談，培養樂觀開朗的個性

(1) 應有固定的親子共同遊戲接觸時間，與孩子交心
(2) 多帶孩子到戶外走走，參加團體活動，擴展人際關係
(3) 給孩子多方面的刺激，增加其適應的能力

 ....... (class time) ........
Teacher：Simon! Come up to play the game.
Simon： ....... (shakes his head)...
Joe：Simon can not play this game, because he is not good put yourself in
　　  Simon's shoes, how would you feel if somebody criticized you?
　　  Come up, Simon!
Kids：Go! Go! Simon! ......Yah, Simon is the winner.
Teacher：You see! Simon is silemt bit strong.
　　　　   So we must respect each other

(1) Don't care what other people say.
(2) Don't be afraid. Everybody supports you.